Watercolours – I have a whole new respect for my friend Wendie

This week at art class was water colours.  All I can really say about watercolours is that I have a whole new respect for my friend Wendie.

Kathy made it look so easy!  I did not find it to be so.

 

straw splatter sponge

 

 

 

 

 

 

Salt and Wax

 

 

 

 

 

 

WC orchid

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Water or Mice: opening the cottage 2013

What a glorious weekend for opening the cottage!  Sunny, temperature in the 20’s, no bugs to speak of and ridiculously high water levels.  Apparently it’s a 100 year high water level.

one of 2 government docks under water

one of 2 government docks under water

The road from town to the cottage is actually closed unless you’re “local” which everyone out here is because it’s the only road in and out of town.

While running around taking pictures for Facebook so my kids could see how crazy the water is, I met the new neighbour, Dave.  He lives in the Pride of Muskoka house and works at Pride of Lake of Bays.  Seems like a very nice guy.  For the record, Pride of Muskoka is substantially under water.

The cottage however was completely untouched by the high water levels as we’re on a hill so we’re lucky that way.

Last fall Jennifer at Oust-a-Mouse loaned me a second O-a-M unit to see if we could get the mouse population under control so it was with great oustamouseanticipation that I started on a mouse poop expedition.  Since we didn’t install it until the week between Xmas and New Year’s it’s hard to say for sure – at this point – whether it helped but, Jennifer had said “bleach everything” so I started cleaning – with bleach – so that I could get the fridge up and running, etc.

Turns out it was a good thing that I was cleaning with bleach instead of water because on day 3 (Sunday a.m.) we still have no running water.  We do have a lot of very clean surfaces though.  Unfortunately, have not been able to move the fridge single handed to bleach under/behind it and check the wiring – that will have to wait until water is running.

As husband, Joe, struggles on with the water situation (I’m staying out of the way as he’s agitated), I’m trying to find more areas to bleach and enjoying watching the bird that’s building it’s nest under the eave again, right outside the kitchen window.

So, this week will be the real test – will there be mouse poop next week?  Fingers crossed that the answer is a resounding NO!!!

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Portraiture and Colour – two difficult concepts!

self portrait 1Last week we did portraiture…our own.  That was way more difficult than you can image.  Look at yourself in a mirror and draw what you see.

I sent the final product to my friend Wendie and my daughter Olivia and said “what do you think”.  I got responses like – it’s too wide across the cheeks, the chin is too narrow, there’s something not quite right but I’m not sure what it is and my favourite – it looks too young!

During the week, I tried again, added lots more lines/wrinkles, made it less wide across the cheeks but it still isn’t right.  Then I discovered why Olivia said “there’s something not quite right but I’m not sure what it is” when I stood in front of a mirror and held the two sketches up and realized …duh…the self 2sketches are what I see in a mirror, not what Olivia sees when she looks at me.  So, I’ve taken some pictures of myself and will try and do another sketch from them.  Here are the original two.  I will add a third when I get around to it.

 

This week:  Colour!  Sounds like fun, right?  Conté and different types of pastels; sheesh, is it messy and dusty and smudgy and…frustrating!  I’m actually kind of glad that’s over and now Olivia can have back the conté she lent me back at the beginning…not likely to play with that again.  Bring on paint!

 

My conte effort

My conte effort

And my pastel effort

And my pastel effort

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Creating a Safe Environment by Liz Saunders

On Friday I wrote about a nasty experience during Jaden’s swimming lesson.  At the time, I was told I needed to speak to the Crescent Town Club’s General Manager, A.N.   Today, since I had to go to Olivia’s and feed feline horribilous, I thought “I’ll kill two birds with one stone and see if A.N. is in the office”.

On arrival at the pool office, I ran into Ken who had been my witness and instrumental in calming the situation down on Friday.  He took me into A.N.’s office and we had a meeting.  Both A.N. and Ken agreed that the other woman’s behaviour was outrageous and they will be happy to help the police in figuring out who she is.  They have a zero tolerance policy in place which they want to enforce as well, so they have every interest in finding her too.  They had a really good picture of her from their security system and I confirmed that it was the woman in question.  Apparently it shouldn’t be long before she’s identified.

We then discussed possible solutions to dealing with the issue of getting Jaden in and out of his swimming lessons…which I’m pleased to say can now continue.   I think that they were very pleased that I was not trying to ramrod what I wanted through, but was willing to work with them and be as reasonable as possible.  They clearly understand that this is an issue and that it’s an issue that will continue to grow, rather than diminish.

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Swimming Lessons Shouldn’t be Dangerous! by Liz Saunders

A few years ago, Daughter Olivia moved into the complex known as Crescent Town.  At the time, I was worried because when I was her age, Crescent Town was not a place I would have even gone, let alone lived.  But she’s been very happy there and she’s never been mugged.

So last fall, after having difficulties with Toronto Parks and Recreation’s swimming programs for Jaden, I was surprised to find that Crescent Town Community Centre offered private swimming lessons for $90 for 5 and that they were available to the public.  I never would have considered it if Olivia hadn’t lived in the complex – unharmed.

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Off Jaden and I went to swimming.  Jaden is a special child and suffers from severe anxiety in certain circumstances and impulsivity at the best of times.  Sending him into the men’s changing room alone was just not an option.  From the first day, Jaden had instructions to keep his eyes down and to stick close to me, while I found a quiet corner where I could use his towel not just as a shield for him but also from him.   There’s no family changing room so that was about the best I could do.

On one of the first occasions, there was a woman in the change room who totally freaked out on me for having Jaden in the room.   Not much I could do.  She was extremely aggressive, rude, loud and in my face but I carried on, continuing to instruct Jaden to be respectful of the fact that he was in foreign territory.  Funny, when I left that day my house keys were no longer in my jacket pocket.

The second time this happened (different woman), I asked his swimming instructor if there was an alternative.   She said, “don’t worry about it, I’ll make sure it’s okay”.  I thought that would be the end of it.

Last night, as we approached the door of the change room, Jaden said to me “eyes down, right grandma?” and we went to our corner and he changed.   Imagine my surprise when an employee followed us into the shower saying “people are complaining about him being in here”.  I said “this has been taken care of, tell them to complain at the desk”.  She repeated herself, I repeated myself, she repeated herself…you get the picture.  When we got into the pool, I told the swimming instructor about it and she said “that shouldn’t happen”.

In any event, I left Jaden in Niv’s care – not without a major wobble on Jaden’s part about me leaving – to go and pay for 5 more lessons (including the one he was about to have).  As I waited at the counter I was aware that another woman had also come to stand near me.  When the pool employee finally came to the counter, rather than speak to me, although I was there first, he spoke to her.    She raised her arm, pointed at me and started shrieking that I had a 9 year old boy in the woman’s change room.  I turned and looked at her realizing it was the same woman who had shrieked at me on the previous occasion.

Things escalated and when I turned my back on her in disgust she shoved me, hard enough that she hurt me and, although I didn’t back down, frankly frightened me.    Thanks goodness she did it in front of the pool employee!

So now I had a dilemma – am I going to be able to bring Jaden for more lessons?  Do I bother buying more?  How do I get him out of the pool, showered and dressed after his lesson other than using the Women’s?  The pool employee was very good, calmed me down and suggested I lay a complaint against the woman.  He assured me that the pool staff would be able to determine who she is because the whole event was videotaped!

When Jaden and I returned home and told Joe about it, there was no doubt in his mind that I needed to call the police about the assault.  I was reluctant at first but then realized that as this was not an isolated incident but the second encounter with this woman and things had escalated.  I was also reluctant to go back to the pool because of it.  Sure signs of dealing with a bully.

Toronto’s Finest were called; I requested that charges not be laid at this time but that the woman be found and cautioned.  Fortunately, as a special child, Jaden has the right to access facilities like this pool and either they must find accommodation for us or they must ensure that we have a safe environment and women like her must leave us alone.

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Art is a Messy Business! by Liz Saunders

Today I walked into class late (they would reduce the Woodbine bridge to 1 lane in the direction I was going on today of all days) and was extremely pleased to see that Reissa had joined us!   Yay!  And she did really well for her first day, although much like Elizabeth and I on our first day, she didn’t think so.  She’s wrong and I’m not afraid to say so.

Today was very messy.  Kathy had prepared a page of paper for Elizabeth and me that was covered in charcoal.  Then we had to do the opposite of what we did before (conté on construction paper) – we had to erase the charcoal for our contrast!  And not an easy thing – the watering can with leaves wrapped around it.  Well, I wasn’t thrilled with the outcome, but it is what it is.

charcoal watering can and plant

 

 

 

 

 

 

Next we got to play with ink!  I had been looking forward to ink but not really sure I’m happy with this either.  And the problem with ink is that you can’t erase it, so again, it is what it is.Leaf in ink

 

 

 

 

On Sunday I ordered myself some watercolour coloured pencils because Kathy had told us that if you’re going to work with coloured pencils, these are the best – just as pencils – but have the flexibility of being water colours as well.  So, hoping they might arrive today, I drove the three students over to DeSerres and I picked up a selection of brushes.

first brushes

Then to my delight, my pencils arrived this afternoon!  Only thing is…Kathy hasn’t taught us colour yet and I forgot about watercolour paper.

New pencils

So, this week’s experimentation will be very messy at home too! But what the heck, the one thing I’ve learned is that you can’t really do anything wrong in art – especially since if I try some watercolour pencil fruit – I can eat the evidence!

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Terrified Beginner No Longer – part 2 by Liz Saunders

And as promised – my homework:

still life at home

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